Their Eyes Were Never On Me: One Man’s Painful Journey with “Self” Addiction is a raw and deeply personal memoir that takes readers on a...

Books

Their Eyes Were Never On Me: One Man’s Painful Journey With “Self” Addiction

Their Eyes Were Never On Me: One Man’s Painful Journey with “Self” Addiction is a raw and deeply personal memoir that takes readers on a transformative journey through one man’s battle with self-obsession and the search for true healing.

In this honest and powerful account, the author opens up about his years of emotional pain, self-destructive...

Read more

The Authenticity Over Approval Method: 10 Ways to Embrace Your True God Given Essence

In a world that constantly pressures us to conform, it’s easy to lose sight of who we really are. ”The Authenticity Over Approval Method: 10 Ways to Embrace Your True God Given Essence” offers a revolutionary approach to reclaiming your true self, regardless of the expectations placed on you by others.

Through this transformative guide, actor,...

Read more

Latest Updates

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Duane Osterlind, host of The Addicted Mind Podcast, to discuss my new ebook, "Their Eyes Were Never On Me: One Man’s Painful Journey With...

Big News: Dwayne Barnes Joins the Ranks of Deadline Magazine Contributors!


I’m beyond thrilled to announce that I’ve been selected to write for Deadline Magazine, one of the most influential and prestigious entertainment news outlets in the industry....

View All

Blog

One day, all the creative souls woke up.

They hadn’t known they were asleep

for most of their lives—

drugged into believing they must pretend,

hide their truth and creative gifts

for fear of being shamed

and blamed for being uniquely one of a kind.

Then, miraculously, they discovered their inner magician.

Oh, what joy!

They created and published, and published—

until, in an amazing twist,

they ALL woke up.

Wake up!

The 5 Joys of Being Alive – Discover Your Purpose and Live Authentically

Life is a balance of depth and lightness, highs and lows, challenges and joys. To live fully and authentically, we must embrace it all. Today, let’s focus on the lighter side of life—those moments that remind us why we’re here.

We all have a unique and divine mission, even if we don’t fully understand it yet. The key is discovering our purpose and aligning with it in the most authentic way possible. I recently reflected on this question:

Why am I here?

And five answers stood out to me. Maybe...


by Dwayne Barnes

"Dwayne is scared of women," my new-ish close male friend said as he and I stood in a club surrounded by beautiful black women and gentlemen who were trying to become their suitors.

When he said it, I was stunned. I was outed. He knew something that I had never uttered to anyone but that I knew to be a hidden truth.

How did he know?

What did I do to show him that?

It was fear. It was palpable whenever I was around women in a club setting where there was pressure to connect with...

View All